Nine years ago, Haralee W. underwent six months of chemo for breast cancer. Exhausted, puffy from steroids and with no eyebrows, Haralee, 58, could never figure out why people exclaimed how great she looked. “I would think, ‘Really? How bad do you think I looked before chemo?’” she says. “It was astonishing to me they could say this, instead of a simple ‘Good to see you!’”